You're in competition with every other guy online so you've got to adjust your reply, your wording and your attitude to get her attention first and foremost.If you have little experience with women, then you have almost no frame of reference for what I'm talking about in general, and until you start DOING more, you just won't "get it" as well.
Second, forget about trying to respond to a woman's personal ad by reading it, thinking about it, considering what she's looking for, and then responding in a way that she will find interesting. The ad you sent in above could have been run by any woman in any part of the world it might as well be a generic ad template for women.
The one thing this ad DOESN' T mention (and the one thing that NO female personal ads EVER mention) is what makes this woman feel ATTRACTION for a man. This woman sat down one night at her computer, and said to herself "I'm tired of the dating game. He is a person of good character, high morals and loyal.
Maybe if I put a personal ad online and describe the kind of guy I'm looking for, Prince Charming will find me and we'll live happily ever after". "I'd like to eventually settle down with someone that I can look to as a best friend and that I can laugh with..." "I believe that the best relationships are based on friendship..." And the whole last paragraph is priceless: "My ideal match is the kind of guy that isn't afraid of being himself. He is thoughtful, considerate and knows how to treat a lady.
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You have the distinct advantage of editing and spell checking your message as well as maybe even have a friend check it before you send it.But it's got to be great to turn that online message into a real world date, right?As far as responding to a woman's online personal ad: Remember, women who run personal ads are getting TONS of responses.When you've decided play the personals, stay current with them, and contact women as soon as they place their ad.This way you'll be one of the first to start a conversation with her as opposed to the 497th guy.At some point, the hundreds of men who are responding to a woman's personal ad all run together into a big lump of desperate men. Watch for the newest member listings on your dating service of choice.