You might notice that he doesn’t actually have a job. You can, within a very short space of time, feel that you have been with someone for 3 years, or that have that feeling that you have known this person all of your life.
When you meet a sociopath, once he has assessed you, if he decides, that you have what he wants. He might overwhelm you with gifts and will constantly flatter you.
Love bombing is so called because of the constant bombardment of communication from the sociopath. Excessive texting, constant comments on your social network page, emails, telephone calls, or just literally bombarding you verbally in face to face communication.
At first you will not perceive this as bombardment.
This is an important manipulation tool for a sociopath, love bombing does the following things.
Moving the relationship forward quickly Love bombing is effective, as it moves the relationship forward very quickly.
You might spend 10 hours talking on a telephone conversation. The message that you receive is: It blinds you to reality It is important for the sociopath to move the relationship forward very quickly.
Or might receive constant text messages during the day. If he didn’t you might notice that there is a lack of friends from his past.
You will initially be flattered that he is paying so much attention to you.
He will leave you small love notes, send you sweet texts, it is like something from a movie.